Secret of Law of Attraction and Abundance

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Integrity Matters - Positive Attitude advices

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We all grow up with a set of experiences and lessons that shape our value system and create our foundation in life. In housing construction, the stuff that holds the foundation together is called mortar. In life, that mortar is called integrity. Similar to houses, foundations in life can either start with cracks or develop them later.

Even if you grow up in the perfect Beaver Cleaver household, things happen in life that cause stress on your foundation. Like a house settling as a result of gravity and bad weather, your life develops cracks as a result of situations--divorce, neglect, fear, abuse, peer pressure, work stress, illness. On the other hand, the seemingly most fortunate life situations can also crack a foundation. You wonder how people who look like they have it all (money, fame and stardom) can resort to damaging or ending their lives, but that's not an unusual backdrop for the storyline of many famous people's biographies. Women like Janis Joplin, Marylyn Monroe and even Martha Stewart got caught in a tangled web of mistakes.

Saranne Rothberg is a woman who decided to fill her cancer holes with laughter. She started a nonprofit organization called Comedy Cures that helps people in tough situations laugh. Her traveling Laugh-A-Thons visit all kinds of groups around the country from hospitals to 9/11 family survivors. Five years after her fatal diagnosis, Saranne has no signs of the disease.

I often sign notes and letters with the words "Love, Light & Laughter". Love and laughter for obvious reasons, many of which are repeated in this book. Light is a reminder to always gravitate towards all things bright, positive and cheery in life and then to shine your own inner Goddess light with so much intensity that that it cuts through and dissipates any darkness around you. If you fill your life with those three "Ls", you will always act with integrity and joy, and be able to break whatever negative patterns you may have been exposed to or continue to hold on to in your life.

While you can't change the foundation created by the environment in which you grew up, or the subsequent life events that follow, you do have a choice to fill in the cracks that may form with positive things like love, light, and laughter.

5 Ways to Fill Your Foundation:

o Always tell the truth.
o If you feel like you're in a rut, use the three Ls (love, light and laughter) to help you out.
o Honor your body with good nutrition and exercise--avoid recreational drugs.
o Never compromise your integrity--stand your ground.
o Don't keep anything that isn't really yours, including praise.

Excerpted from the book: The Goddess of Happiness, A Down-to-Earth Guide for Heavenly Balance and Bliss

Debbie Gisonni, aka The Goddess of Happiness™, is an author (The Goddess of Happiness: A Down-to-Earth Guide for Heavenly Balance and Bliss and Vita’s Will: Real Life Lessons about Life Death & Moving On), speaker, happiness expert and columnist for iVillage.com. Contact: [http://www.goddessofhappiness.com]

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Law of attraction: be prepared to get it

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Be More Understanding - Positive Attitude advices

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Ask any mother what she wants most of all for her children, and she's likely to say, "I just want them to be happy." Yet the things that make some teens happy these days (multiple piercings, purple hair, black lipstick) are probably not what their mothers had in mind. My friend Kim's sixteen-year-old son, Drew, wanted to get a tattoo for years--nothing outlandish or satanic--just a drawing of a sun on his shoulder.

After much deliberation, Kim decided he could get it. Drew was a good kid, and Kim felt that if she had to pick her battles, she'd rather win the more important ones such as those involving drugs or smoking. The tattoo could be covered with a shirt and was perfectly legal with parental consent. And, since she gave Drew plenty of time for the novelty of the idea to wear off and he still wanted the tattoo, she knew it wasn't just a passing fancy. Every generation of teens has its idiosyncrasies that make them unique and help them fit in at the same time.

Teens aren't the only ones who require us to look beyond our comfort zone in life. People of all ages need to be understanding with each other as well. If a girlfriend or family member wants to do something you think is ridiculous, don't form an immediate negative judgment. As long as it's not against the law, doesn't physically harm the person or others, and isn't an act of prejudice or violence; open your heart and mind to the person's motivations, desires and point of reference. Asking questions will help.

Teachers are called upon to have tremendous understanding for children that aren't their own and whom they may only know for one school season. One of my childhood friends became a special education teacher. Her "kids", as she calls them, have socio-economic as well as mental challenges. No matter what profanity they yell or violent outburst they have, Diane says she loves teaching them every day. Having an understanding of the challenges they face at home, in life, and in their own heads helps her to see beyond the surface of their actions. Eleanor Roosevelt said, "Understanding is a two-way street." If you take the time to learn more about the subject and engage the other person, you'll naturally be more educated and tolerant. After all, to understand means to have learned.

5 Ways to Open Your Mind & Heart:

o When your child wants something of which you disapprove, remember how you felt at that age and try to understand her needs.

o Support your friend's and family's choices in their lives, even if they seem outrageous to you.

o Before making a negative judgment, talk it over with others and research the topic.

o Respect that each person has free will and needs to express herself in ways that may only make sense to her.

o Life is a series of compromises--try to avoid having the attitude that it's your way or no way.

Excerpted from the book: The Goddess of Happiness, A Down-to-Earth Guide for Heavenly Balance and Bliss

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Law of attraction: Write it on your heart that every day is the best day in the year.

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Mind Technique's - Positive Attitude advices

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This technique I'm going to explain in this article may be considered pretty radical by some. But before you decide or make a judgment that I could be simple or simply out of My Own Mind, please stay with me for a moment.

Sport Psychology has become extremely important in the sporting world. But don't be misled into thinking that this is only something that's of interest to sports men and women. There are many aspects to sport psychology, and I believe some can assist even the humble online entrepreneur to achieve massive success. The most useful I've found is the idea of 'visualization'.

The human brain is a complex organ that's capable of many tremendous feats, but it can also be fooled. In particular, the brain can't tell the difference between reality and something that's vividly imagined. To demonstrate what I mean, try the following simple experiment for yourself:

Close your eyes and imagine you're holding a large juicy ripe orange. Now imagine yourself starting to peel that orange. Imagine the thin spray of juice from the peel as you insert a thumbnail. Imagine the sharp fresh aroma of orange that fills the air as you pull sections of peel from the soft juicy flesh. Now imagine the sticky juice running down your fingers as you pull away one of the moist orange segments, and the sharp sweet taste exploding on your tongue as you take your first bite.

If you've been able to vividly imagine these things taking place, then you'll almost certainly find yourself *Salivating Wildly* I know I am, and that's just by writing this passage!

Your brain's reaction has been no different than if you'd actually peeled that orange. It's been unable to distinguish this as just your imagination, and has reacted by sending a signal to your saliva glands to expect something delicious. Now this example may have nothing to do with your business, but it ably demonstrates my point.

So how we can use this phenomenon to help ourselves and others?

Choose a particular skill or area where you wish to improve, or simply choose one of your goals. You do have goals don't you? Spend at least 5 minutes everyday relaxing in a quiet place, visualizing yourself completing your task or goal. That's all it takes, but you must do it regularly.

One of the reasons why this technique is so successful is that you'll normally always imagine yourself being successful in whatever you choose to think about. I mean, why you would want To imagine yourself failing or doing something badly? Doing things correctly time after time is a necessity in any learning process and is a tremendous confidence builder.

When you come to perform your chosen task in reality, your subconscious mind will be expecting you to perform it perfectly as you have many times before in your imagination. You'll automatically have the confidence of an expert.

An added bonus is that while you're imagining your new found successes, you'll also be building a strong positive mental attitude. It's an inescapable fact that you become what you think about. So, if you think you're going to fail all the time, you will.

You may think this idea sounds totally foolish, but don't dismiss it out of hand. With a little creative thought you can employ this technique to improve your performance in many business skills and help you achieve your goals. You do have goals don't you?

I'm not suggesting that visualization can replace traditional practice and experience. However, when used in conjunction with it, you can rapidly accelerate your progress and success. I've used this technique myself and am convinced it makes a difference (even in the thirst dept). It could seriously make you a fortune. Go on, have some fun and give it a try!

-:To-Be successful:- (The secret of success is consistency of purpose)

Most people want to change the world to improve their lives. What a wasted effort. If they would only improve themselves, the would be better off and so would the world.

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Abundance quote: Plant your seeds and trust they will grow in abundance.

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Embracing Unexpected Change - Positive Attitude advices

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For many people, one the greatest fears they experience in life is the changes they are faced with when they believe they are not up to the challenge. Especially when the change is sudden and unexpected.

Unexpected change, such as losing a job, death of a loved one, a natural disaster, your partner leaving you or a life threatening illness, can leave you feeling frustrated, scared, angry, stuck or even incompetent. And below all of that can be a feeling that you have lost a part of yourself that you will not be able to get back.

It's very comfortable to live in a personal world where there are no monumental changes but comfortable doesn't necessarily bring growth, expansion and greater opportunities to your life. And, as we all know, it's impossible to avoid certain changes. However, in every unexpected change there is a greater gain to be had even though it doesn't feel like it in the initial moment of the experience.

In times of such change, no matter how big or small, it is so important to watch the story your inner Gremlin starts to tell you and whether or not there is any truth in that story or if it's just your imagination running wild because of the initial shock and fear of what you are experiencing. Once you're aware of the story you're telling yourself, take a deep breath, slow your mind down and come back to the present moment. Chances are, with the change you are suddenly facing, you immediately went out into the future and imagined all the worst possible scenarios!

Break down the change into bite size pieces so you're looking at one step at a time. I realize that the bigger and more emotional a perceived negative change is, the harder it is to move through it. But the bigger truth is, you can and will move through it, because inside of you is a strength that just may surprise you. The sooner you begin the process of managing your energy on purpose around the change and take whatever actions you can to help yourself through, the easier it will be to deal with the change.

Norman Vincent Peale said, "Action is a great restorer and builder of confidence. Inaction is not only the result, but the cause of fear. Perhaps the action you take will be successful; perhaps different action or adjustments will have to follow. But any action is better than no action at all. Make a move."

Everyone of you reading this has been through some kind of change in your life, big, or small. In your control, or not. Maybe there was great fear and tremendous doubt at the time, but nonetheless, you're still here and you made it through. It makes a difference for those guaranteed future changes, to remind yourself of changes you've already gotten through.

This week spend some time reflecting back through your life and write down all the changes you've been through that have impacted you. Then write down what you've learned because of those changes and how you have personally changed for the better. At the top of the paper put, My Successful Life Changes and keep that piece of paper in a safe place where it is easily accessible.

The next time you're in the middle of an unexpected change or even one you're considering making, read what you wrote, allowing your words to remind you of the inner strength that is always there for you to draw upon and know that you will once again discover all there is to be gained by change. On another piece of paper, in one column write down your fears around the new change your presently experiencing. In the second column write down all the opportunities that could possibly come to be because of the change. Once you mastered that change you can now add it to your list on the My Successful Life Changes paper.

I hope you have pages upon pages of My Successful Life Changes!

And remember:

"Nothing splendid has ever been achieved except by those who dared believe that something inside them was superior to circumstances." Bruce Barton --Founder of BBDO Advertising Copyright 2005, Linda Salazar all rights reserved. This article may be reproduced in its entirety as long as all credits are included.

Linda Salazar

Certified Personal Life Coach, Author, Speaker

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Your Personal Concentration Strategy - Positive Attitude advices

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Concentration is the utmost important tool in order to make the greatest success of anything you desire. You need to be able to concentrate your entire focus onto the idea you are developing in order to make it a full success. A successful person is able to fully concentrate on what does work for him and shut out any de-motivating or destructive thoughts.

Most people find it difficult to hold on to a thought for a long time, and this is natural as you seem to want to move. Hold on to a thought for long and you'll move closer to what you desire, and the way to do this is to do daily, consistent action. If you will just practice a few concentration exercises each day you will find you will soon develop this wonderful power. To get full benefit from all the exercises and tools provided in this back, I suggest you read a tool, put away this pack and practice it.

Each and every one of us are human creatures, but like all, we need to be trained and developed to be useful and successful. If a person is trained to do something, and awakened from their state, they can achieve anything that they want, but the person who lacks the focus and concentration, is the one who will be at loss. All your real advancement must come from your individual effort.

Take this example... To be a successful athlete, you must have both fitness and concentration. If you are fully fit when running a marathon, but are not fully concentrating at the task at hand, you are not taking up every possibility to make an art of your work and life. We accomplish more by concentration than by fitness and so the person who is apparently best suited for a place does not always fill it best.

To create your own general concentration strategy, decide when you need to concentrate, how you will focus your attention, identify and learn how to deal with distractions and then practice your skills!

Working with a personal coach is the best thing to do in order to help you find the best strategies for yourself to become more confident, and then take small consistent steps to practice it each day.

Kavit Haria is The Musicians' Coach. Kavit is the director of InnerRhythm, a company that prides on providing success solutions for musicians worldwide. Kavit sends out a musician development newsletter to over 2000 musicians in 16 countries every fortnight to help them achieve their desired results. Sign up now and experience the huge benefits from www.innerrhythm.org [http://www.innerrhythm.org]

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Abundance: See yourself living in abundance and you will attract it

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Four Steps for Wonderful Attitude- Positive Attitude advices

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Everyday we have unexpected events happen to us. We plan down to the slightest detail and BAM something comes along and throws a major wrench into the machine. But it is not what happens to you at times like this - it is how you react to what happens to you. In this article I want to share a few ways to keep you acting and thinking both creatively and positively. Thus keeping your attitude at its very best under all those circumstances that will be thrust upon you time and time again.

Concentrate on the good

If there was a belief store, where you could go and purchase a belief - then the belief that I would have everyone purchase is the success belief; the belief that everything that happens to you will bring you closer to your desired success or goal. This belief would enable you to search for and find the good in every situation. As hard as it may be at times - there is always a good to be had in every single situation that you live through. Whether it be a lesson learned - experience gained or new contact made - somewhere in there is a good to be had. Find it and your attitude will take a positive direction.

Seek out the valuable lesson

Much like concentrating on the good - if you seek out the valuable lesson then the situation, circumstance or pitfall takes a whole new meaning. You will begin to realize that whatever situation you are facing right now needed to be faced in order to learn the lesson. Now take that lesson and integrate it into your goals and plans for the future. Take that lesson learned and use it to TAKE ACTION towards your success!

Concentrate on the solution

Whenever a difficulty rears its ugly head, quickly concentrate on the solution rather than focusing on the problem. Spending your time rehashing, reliving and reflecting on the problem will quickly eat away at your positive attitude. Instead concentrate on the solution to the obstacle, task or setback that lies in front of you. Break it down into manageable steps, plan and solve for each of the steps - then TAKE ACTION. The moment you begin thinking and planning in terms of solutions you become more positive and more constructive.

Concentrate on the future

Whatever challenges stand before you, focus on the future rather than the past. You can not change the past so instead of worrying about whom did what to whom and why he is to blame, focus on where you desire to be and how you can get there from here. Concentrate on the vision of your future. How you want it to be, how you want it to look. Lay it all out then take action towards making your future become a reality today. Keep you mind focused on your future vision and you'll take more positive actions today.

Think like successful people think

Successful people know that a positive mental attitude is an indispensable tool. You too can be as positive as you want to be if you will concentrate on the good, seek out the valuable lesson, focus on the solution and think about the future. If you think like successful people think, using your mind to exert mental control over the situation, you will be positive and in good spirits a majority of the time. And you will receive the rewards that come with such a positive mental attitude, as all success people have learned.

Time to Take Action!

First - concentrate on the good and seek the valuable lesson in every snag. Start a journal or make a list of every idea and insight you can gain from your setbacks and difficulties.

Second - become solution-oriented with every difficulty you encounter. Make it a habit to look for the answers to your questions as well as the solutions to your problems. Seek out the assistance of a mentor or coach along your road to success.

Third, think on paper. Take the time to write out every detail of the situation, and then brainstorm solutions. Plan out the most logical next steps then TAKE ACTION to get through the obstacle.

Think Successfully and Take Action!

Tracy Brinkmann is an goal setting and success counselor. Through his company Success Atlas, he provides goal-setting, motivational & educational material, & training via live presentations as well as digital/audio products. Sign up for his free e-Zine http://www.successatlas.com

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